Burnout from Dissociative Identity Disorder
Dealing with the issues that surround dissociative identity disorder (DID) and complex trauma is very difficult. The memories, alters, and therapy tends to fill our days with never-ending trauma leading to burnout.
This article will focus on burnout with its signs and symptoms and ways to help yourself when you experience it.
What is Burnout?
In 2019, the World Health Organization classified burnout as a syndrome stemming from an occupational phenomenon. Burnout is not a medical diagnosis, but a syndrome caused by stress that is either unmanageable or not managed well.
While burnout was first recognized in the 1970s as part of a problem experienced in a work environment, the signs and symptoms are easily relatable to the chronic trauma faced by those healing from severe mental conditions such as dissociative identity disorder (DID).
Burnout should not be confused with stress. Stress is having too many problems to deal with, such as too many responsibilities. Burnout is defined as not having enough motivation or energy to go on with everyday life events.
Three main signs of burnout are exhaustion, depersonalization, and reduced personal performance.
Exhaustion. The fatigue felt by those working on DID issues is palpable. Exhaustion presents as mental or physical weariness and being zapped of energy.
Depersonalization. This sign describes feelings of indifference where one becomes numb. This numbness may cause one to be unable to perform well at work or in life. A person living with depersonalization has a lack of communication effectively with others.
Reduced personal performance. This sign manifests itself when a survivor feels treatment, or their life is insufficient to the point where they are incapable of performing well. The survivor may have difficulty concentrating and lose pleasure in what they usually do.
Increased dissociative activity. People living with DID find themselves dissociating or switching more often. Grounding techniques are quite helpful in this instance.
The Symptoms of Burnout
The symptoms of burnout are physical, emotional, and behavioral.
Physical symptoms may include:
- Difficulty sleeping
- Changes in appetite
- Feeling fatigued
- Headaches
- Muscle pain
Emotional symptoms may include:
- Lack of motivation
- Feelings of self-doubt
- Feeling dissatisfied with life
- Feeling like a failure
- Feeling lonely
Behavioral symptoms may include:
- Angry outbursts
- Social isolation
- Not performing your responsibilities
All the symptoms of burnout may be overcome when adequately handled.
Burnout and DID
Dealing with the issues involved in the treatment and living with dissociative identity disorder is challenging and exhausting. It is easy to see why so many quit their healing journey or die by suicide.
However, dissociative identity disorder can be overcome with a lot of guts and hard work, including psychotherapy and other forms of therapy like sand art therapy.
The burnout experienced by people with DID is deep. Dealing with dissociative identity disorder makes one prone to burnout. The symptoms of burnout accompanied by those of DID can make life a living hell for the person experiencing them.
As you will see in the next segment, there is much hope in dealing with burnout and DID.
Handling Burnout
If you recognize the warning signs of burnout, forcing yourself to continue as usual will cause further emotional and physical distress. It is time to pause, change direction, and treat yourself to much-needed healing.
There are three steps to dealing with burnout: recognition, reverse directions through seeking support and building resilience.
Recognition. This step includes watching out for burnout and recognizing when you are experiencing it. You cannot fight an enemy you do not see, so recognition is essential.
Reverse course through seeking support. When burned out, problems seem enormous, and the outlook looks bleak. It is challenging to gather the energy to take action to help yourself, and it is critical to undoing the damage caused by burnout by seeking the support of others. Limiting your experience with negative people is vital to healing from burnout. Reach out to the surrounding people who are close and don’t be afraid to open up and confide in them. See a qualified mental health professional, especially when dealing with dissociative identity disorder. There are plenty of different kinds of therapy out there, and you could benefit from types like equine therapy that can help you to relax and focus on something else, on top of more traditional variants of psychotherapy.
Building your resilience. You can build your resilience by caring for your physical and mental health. You can also cultivate social connections and avoid social isolation. Positive peer support is critical to feeling like performing in life and establishing emotional well-being. Self-awareness is another area that involves understanding your strengths, weaknesses, emotions, thoughts, and attitudes. Cultivating a growth mindset will aid in building resilience by believing you are intelligent and that your capabilities can meet the challenges that life throws at you.
Ending Our Time Together
Burnout is usually thought of as something that happens when work responsibilities overcome one. However, as we’ve seen, people with chronic mental health conditions like DID are also prone to burnout.
When working with the issues surrounding dissociative identity disorder, you need to practice patience and do a lot of self-care. Seeking help when you feel overwhelmed is vital because such events can quickly turn to self-harm or suicidal ideations or actions.
Don’t ever forget that healing is probable if you keep to your guns and do not give up. Therapy, whatever form you choose, is necessary for healing, but the rewards you gain from healing will change your life.
“Hope lies in dreams, in imagination, and in the courage of those who dare to make dreams into reality.” – Jonas Salk
“Healing will take longer than you want, but not as long as you fear.”
– Dr. Paula McNitt
Thank you for this post, especially for the information on overcoming burnout from dealing with DID. I’m struggling to get through this very thing right now, so this information is very helpful for me. The hardest part for me/us is not isolating from other people. I have been trying to go out to social activities with a friend but it’s so hard because even when I am in a room full of other people, I still feel like I am alone and like I am invisible. I try to engage in conversations with people, but it just doesn’t seem to go well, especially when someone asks what kind of work I do and I answer honestly that I am disabled. Usually I get a reply like “Oh, well, ummm…”, then they give some reason to go talk to someone else before I can change the topic. So I am finding myself more and more reluctant to accept my friend’s invitations to go to the activities at all. It is easier just to be at home, relax, and let my “inside kids” have “outside” time to be themselves.
I have a burn out since 2016…, second one by the way.
I m So exhausted.. also I m a stay at home single mother at the moment.
My kids are teens.. they are fine and doing good enough at school.
Ive lost my job in “18 ( worked as operator)
I worked fulltime. Losing the job was also stressing me out.
But i had to admit it was also need
The company I worked for feared for medication use, wich I didnt use, and I told them that I didnt use anti depressents.
But at the time I started having more fysical and neurological problems. Heart palpations that woudnt stop and throwing up.
My boss noticed the switching..
I told my boss that I had ptsd and was still in therapy.
And that i was divorced in “16 but my ex partner woudnt communicate etc (narsistische abuse)
I was doing my best to take my responsabilty for me and the kids.
Now im still sick and working on my diagnosis.. wich is also hard because the terapist has non experience with DID
So here I am still strugling as a 42 year old mother to live life tbe best I can.
Im very gratefull for this website💞
Ps: Im from the Netherlands So sorry for grammatical misstakes.😬
You sound like a very strong person. You should pay yourself on the back for having withstood so much. You are a successful mom and that if terrific. I’m proud of you. Shirley
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Thank you Miss Shirley’ Im very proud of you to living with this disorder. And for everyone else.
💞💞💞💞😘
Comment So glad you distinguished stress from burnout; most helpful!
CommentThank you,didn’t realize that burnout is a side effect of living with DID.Very validating and relatable.