The Importance of Self-Love
The topic of self-love often makes survivors cringe as they cannot seem to understand that it is okay to love oneself. Self-love is one of the most important things you can do to overcome the negative effects of dissociative identity disorder (DID). In this article together we will...
Showing Yourself Acceptance and Compassion
Accepting oneself with all your flaws is part of being mentally healthy. However, often survivors are their own worst critics picking themselves apart and holding themselves back from experiencing life to the fullest. This article will focus on self-compassion and how to become more self-accepting. A Refresher:...
Defeating Complex Trauma with Self-compassion
No one is harder on a survivor of complex trauma than the survivor. Survivors feel they are a burden, are unable to have a voice for themselves, or feel shame. Also, survivors often lack trust in who they are and believe no one is trustworthy. This article will...
Loving Yourself is Okay
Survivors of childhood trauma, especially those who have developed severe mental health conditions like dissociative identity disorder, borderline personality disorder, or major depressive disorder, sometimes hate themselves for who they are and where their lives have gone. To be clear, this is not something only relegated to survivors. If...
Motivation for Your Valentine’s Day
“You can search throughout the entire universe for someone who is more deserving of your love and affection than you are yourself, and that person is not to be found anywhere. You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe deserve your love and affection.” ~ Buddha I...
I Refuse to be Defined by Trauma
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I Refuse to be Undefined by Trauma
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Rising from the Flames: My Story
I have risen like a Phoenix from the flames that made me who I am. This is my personal story. ...
Life is Fatal
Death is inevitable, so why not live?...
Embarking on a New Adventure
Leaving the past in the past takes courage. Walking into the future does too....
Rest, the Magical Cure
Ahh, taking time for yourself feels GREAT!! ...
The Search for Happiness
We humans spend our lives looking for happiness on the other side of the fence, what if is right in front of us and we won't see it?
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