I Need Some Fun, How About You?
I have returned to college and have been working extremely hard on homework this week. One of my classes is extremely tough and quite frankly, I could use a few laughs! So, I decided to construct this blog post full of funny stuff. Some of the jokes are DID...
Book Review on Dissociative Identity Disorder In A Nutshell: A First-Hand Account
I wish to thank Laura Marchildon for the wonderful book review she did on my book Dissociative Identity Disorder in a Nutshell: A First-Hand Account. I am grateful for her objectivity and truthfulness. One thing Laura pointed out to me in our email is that the book she reviewed...
World Suicide Prevention Day
Across the world nearly 800,000 commit suicide each year which is one person every 40 seconds, according to the World Health Organisation. With 65,000 people attempting suicide each year and hundreds of thousands of people thinking about committing suicide, World Suicide Prevention day aims to open up the...
The Hazards of Living in the Past
This piece is about dwelling on what happened to we survivors in our pasts. It is not intended to belittle anyone’s traumatic pasts, nor is it intended to say that one should not look at their pasts with open eyes and live there for a time. It is intended...
Kicking the Can Down the Road
Humans are motivated by their behaviors, motivations and goals and one thing we all do is to kick the can down the road. We spend an inordinate about of time and energy doing the things we want to satisfy our desires, regardless of the consequences, telling ourselves that it...
The Illusion of Control
Well, since my last post about life went over so well, I thought I’d post about the most common illusion found among mankind, the illusion that we have control over our lives and the lives of others. Please remember, I’m writing about lessons I’ve garnered from living through the...
Shedding Some Light on My Last Post
I have had some very interesting reactions to my last post about life not being easy and not being fair. I thought I’d share them with you. The first reaction I received dealt with the .gif of the young girl having a temper tantrum. I was told the picture...
Life Isn’t Easy, Life Isn’t Fair
There are two basic facts about life that many people either were never taught or they try to say do not apply to themselves: Life isn’t easy and life isn’t fair. These two concepts are true for everyone, no matter your financial status, your ethnic background, your sexual orientation,...
The Lasting Effects of Broken Trust
Trigger Warning: The following article is full of references to abuse issues and mentions things that may be triggering to some. I do not and will not write specifics of abuse on my blog, but the emotions that even talking briefly about these issues can be upsetting. Before I...
Even Seasoned Soldiers Get Weary
I’ve spent the greater part of three decades dealing with issues that no one single human should ever have to face. I’ve seen my favorite and most beloved therapist retire, my best friend die, and my own life take so many twists and turns that I’m dizzy. I turn...
Podcast on CoreBrain Journal About DID
I have spoken on a podcast for The Core Brain Journal. I spoke on the realities of living with Dissociative Identity Disorder. Please check out the link below and let me know what you think. Pod Cast on DID...
All Humans Have Ego States
There is a lot of confusion in the minds of people living with Dissociative Identity Disorder, mental health clinicians, and the general public about what the different parts involved in DID actually are and how they are formed. I would like to try to shed some light on this...