Tag: healing

Structural Dissociation and Dissociative Identity Disorder

As you may have noticed, there are dozens of theories out there about dissociation and dissociative identity disorder. Obviously, since dissociation is part of DID, it is necessary to cover these theories the best we can.   For this article, we shall investigate structural dissociation theory and all its...

Coaching for those Who Have Dissociative Identity Disorder

Beginning this December 2023 (now), I am offering a new opportunity for healing through receiving coaching from me. I offer 30+ years of healing experience in all aspects of DID. If you are interested, please email me at: thedavisintegratedservices@gmail.com To be completely transparent, I charge $50 per hour for...

International Day of Persons with Disabilities

People have days for everything anymore. However, I am in a wheelchair and have been for over twenty years, so the one that is near and dear to my heart is the International Day of Persons with Disabilities.   I hope that this article will not only raise awareness...

Victim Mentality

We’ve all been there. We wake up some mornings with a bad attitude toward life. We feel the world is against us and wish people would treat us better. For most people, that sucky attitude passes as we get on with our lives.   However, what is it like...

The Ten Stages of Healing from Dissociative Identity Disorder 

Healing from dissociative identity disorder (DID) is arduous at best and dangerous at worst. Healing takes time, effort, and an understanding of yourself like you’ve never known before because of therapy. I have gone through all the stages of healing from DID many times until now. I now have...

Overcoming Rejection: How Psychotherapy Can Help You

Everyone has experienced rejection either in their public or private lives. Perhaps your best friend wants some alone time when you want them to go out. You feel put off and rejected.   However, sometimes rejection goes very deep and begins in early childhood.   This article will focus...

Dissociative Identity Disorder and Relationships

Relationships are hard for everyone to navigate with emotional attachment and fear of abandonment by your newfound love. But what if you are living with dissociative identity disorder (DID)? How do you navigate the drama of being in a relationship with a partner healing from trauma?   This article...

Mindfulness vs. Meditation  

It is common these days to hear or read something about mindfulness and meditation. However, few people recognize these exercises for what they are and have no clue what the difference is between them.   In this article, we will discover mindfulness and meditation and how they can work...

The Trauma of Neglect

People like you and I had highly traumatic childhoods. There was the apparent abuse that we can name and remember through flashbacks, and there is also the hidden abuse that few acknowledge; neglect.   This article will focus on neglect, its effects on adults, and ways to defeat it....

Grief, Mourning, and Dissociative Identity Disorder

Those who have formed dissociative identity disorder (DID) due to severe and repeated child abuse know the pain of grief and mourning. We grieve over what could have been and mourn over what we lost.   This article will concentrate on grief and mourning for those with DID.  ...

Loneliness and Dissociative Identity Disorder

The following article is written from my heart to warm yours. I have included some insights into my own healing journey to help you feel less lonely.   Perhaps one of the toughest parts of having DID is the loneliness and feeling disconnected from the rest of the world....

Family Estrangement: Going No Contact – Part Three

We have been exploring together the ins and outs of going no contact with a family of origin. As we have seen, going no contact is a dramatic and often traumatic event that allows you some peace when your family denies your past abuse or is still abusing you....