Maladaptive Fear the Most Primitive Emotion
Fear is a necessary emotion that protects humans from harm by alerting us to danger and enabling us to respond through the fight/flight/freeze/fawn response. However, when fear becomes chronic it can disable people and cripple their lives. In this article, we shall examine fear, its source, and what can...
The Awesome Power of Meditation
When one thinks of meditation some will think of someone sitting cross-legged on the floor, with fingers in a funny position, repeating a simple word or sound such as “ommm”. However, meditation is much deeper and richer a practice than just the one practice encompassing many forms. This fourth...
Poetry from the Heart
Sometimes a poem is written that grabs at the heart and won’t let go. Such is this poem that was written by a friend of mine, Jessica Baker. Jessica doesn’t have dissociative identity disorder but she does have a related problem borderline personality disorder. Both come from traumatic histories...
Contemplative Quotes
Anyone who reads my blog knows I like to end my pieces with quotes. So, today I decided to throw together some of my favorite quotes and sayings for you today. As you read through them, don’t just scan through, and then do something else. Instead, contemplate on what...
Acceptance Accelerates Healing
As I and many of my readers know, healing from dissociative identity disorder takes a long time. We struggle with so many issues that it takes time to wade through them even with an excellent therapist. God knows there are many things to accept in healing from a major...
Who Speaks for the Children?
This piece concentrates on how much we as a society (and yes, we survivors too) concentrate so much on our own problems that we forget the weakest among us, the children. It is time to ask ourselves the hard questions and find the hard answers to the harm our...
A Beautiful Piece of Amber
I wrote this story for my therapist Paula when she retired. I read it to her and gave her a book of my writing with this story in it. I thought I’d share it with you. I realize I may have published this here before but I have many...
Be Careful with Making Those New Year’s Resolutions for 2020
I don’t want to be a party pooper but making new year’s resolutions can be hazardous to your health. While all of us should set goals for the year ahead, setting unrealistic ones can cause stress and disappointment. So, how do you set a goal that is realistic but...
From My Heart to Yours, Happy Holidays
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Merry Christmas
What happens to elves when they behave naughty? Santa gives them the sack. What kind of music do elves listen to? Wrap. What says ‘Oh Oh Oh’? Santa walking backwards! Who delivers presents to baby sharks at Christmas? Santa Jaws! What’s the best Christmas Present? A broken drum...
The Positive Side of Family Estrangement and Creating a Family of Choice
This series on family estrangement may seem to be a strange topic to cover during the holiday season. Yet, being separated from family during Thanksgiving, Christmas, and New Year’s is a familiar occurrence for many survivors. The purpose of these articles is to offer support to all who come...
Childhood Grooming By Sexual Predators
***Trigger Warning*** Child abuse is a subject many would rather sweep under the rug because it is such a vile and heinous crime against humanity. Yet, child abuse continues to happen and will continue to prevail until we bring it out of the darkness and into the light of...